tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5045042175837945022.post4438426726976572649..comments2011-12-17T23:25:48.698-08:00Comments on Happytizing Life: His Fault Was That He Loved HerHappytizing Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11007815528277391015noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5045042175837945022.post-87123537468473008682010-08-24T02:57:05.037-07:002010-08-24T02:57:05.037-07:00Afif,
You are absolutely right and I totally agre...Afif,<br /><br />You are absolutely right and I totally agree about the signs that people give so that both can know where they stand, if they are blessed with enough social intelligence that is. Sometimes people KNOW where they stand and measure their next step accordingly to ensure minimum damage. However, all this happened before any of these warning signs could given and before allowing a chance to get to know this person. I do understand that sometimes people don’t even want to get to the stage of even knowing, but mocking is unacceptable in my books. It’s all about being thankful that someone thinks you are special regardless who they are.Happytizing Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11007815528277391015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5045042175837945022.post-45918369941218299372010-08-23T15:19:47.435-07:002010-08-23T15:19:47.435-07:00Most people I know would probably sympathize with ...Most people I know would probably sympathize with Mr. X, they will start thinking,<i> this $%^#@ is trying to belittle his untainted platonic love </i>, however allow me to consider a different approach, a deflection from the norms so to speak. <br /> <br />I wonder if Mr. X is a masochist; what I mean is, in the prospect of a possibly happening relationship there are what I call “encouraging signs”, if she stops and look at you ... if she often initiates contact with you ... if she laughs at your jokes and act like a drunk girl on a happy Prozac trip, just to name a few. There are also what I call “anti self-mortification measures”, these are used when none of the above applies and you need to make sure, as to save yourself the embarrassment; she's <b> indifferent </b> towards you, when you ask her out for dinner she asks who else is coming, and she playfully calls you her brother. These signs and measures are safeguards to use to buffer us from an unnecessary awkward moment that will last a life time.<br /><br />To conclude my twisted approach, why blame the girl, she never gave encouraging signs and Mr. X never used the anti self-mortification measures even though she was blistering with rejection. <br /><br />I love your posts.Afifnoreply@blogger.com